Dear Jacqui,
I just turned 21 and I met a new guy a month ago. He's really nice and sweet but we always argue about sex. He always asks me when we are going to do it and I'm scared that if I don't do it sooner he would leave. I broke-up with my last boyfriend because he was cheating. I don't want to loose my new boyfriend I'm already attached. Help, Patty,

Dear Patty,
If you loose him because you don't want to give in to his pressures -- well, then he obviously doesn't value you enough to be patient and wait till you are ready for real intimate bonding.

If you have any concerns about having intimacy with him at this time, listen to your inner voice. Usually it gives you the right message and your head should not overrule your heart. But, also understand that not all males are like your last boyfriend. So you can't label them all the same. Spend some time with yourself and concentrate on all the nice things you are, your qualities.

If there is anything to learn in life it is to be true to yourself and your own feelings. They will never betray you. With kind wishes,

Jacqui

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