Dear Jacqui:
I'm 17, and I'm still a virgin. The problem is that I have noticed that I am getting these bumps on the lips of my vagina. I don't know what they are from. When one of the bumps was punctured, blood came out and a couple of other times there was a little bit of puss also. I don't know if it's a bacterial infection or what.

Another reason I'm asking for help is that I am in a serious committed relationship now. I am not sure if I will have sex, but l want to be "clean" if l decide to do so. I am terrified of seeing a gynecologist. I hope you can provide me with some helpful information. I would greatly appreciate it., Ginger

Dear Ginger:
I can understand that you are a bit nervous. Sexuality is a big subject and there are so few places and people that one can openly talk about it. Let's start with the bumps. If you are shaving in the area of the vaginal lips, it is possible that this causes tiny little cuts which got infected.

Then, if that occurred, it is quite possible that you would observe some puss and blood (just as you would when puncturing a "zits" in your face). However, this should not occur on the inside or between the vaginal lips where no hair grows. If you notice little bumps in that area, they can be caused by a number of reasons:

Sometimes tight clothes that scrape the skin can do it, exercise wear or exercises that cause perspiration and irritation to the tissue can easily cause the bumps. Sitting in a scented bubble bath can be irritating to your vaginal tissue and cause allergic reactions. Avoid all products in the vaginal area that are scented or contain any additives such as coloring, plant additives or vitamins.

These types of products do not belong in this tender area of your body where conception takes place. They often destroy the natural pH which protects this part of your body from irritation and infection. Be sure to wash with a mild pH balanced cleanser and plenty of lukewarm water. For the time being avoid wash cloths, instead use cotton and dispose of it after use, to avoid re-infection.

As far as gynecologist go, I can understand you're being anxious. It is notthe most pleasant type of examination, but there are now many women gynecologists and they would have compassion and understanding. If your infections persist, it might still be advisable to see a doctor.

As to having sex or not. It is really best when you're completely sure that you want to share this experience with your partner. Listen to your heart, not your head, if there are any concerns you loose nothing by waiting. Best wishes,

Jacqui




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	"I'm 17 and I have questions about my intimate care" Dear Jacqui: I'm 17, and I'm still a virgin. The problem is that I have noticed that I am getting these bumps on the lips of my vagina. I don't know what they are from. When one of the bumps was punctured, blood came out and a couple of other times there was a little bit of puss also. I don't know if it's a bacterial infection or what. Another reason I'm asking for help is that I am in a serious committed relationship now. I am not sure if I will have sex, but l want to be "clean" if l decide to do so. I am terrified of seeing a gynecologist. I hope you can provide me with some helpful information. I would greatly appreciate it., Ginger Dear Ginger: I can understand that you are a bit nervous. Sexuality is a big subject and there are so few places and people that one can openly talk about it. Let's start with the bumps. If you are shaving in the area of the vaginal lips, it is possible that this causes tiny little cuts which got infected. Then, if that occurred, it is quite possible that you would observe some puss and blood (just as you would when puncturing a "zits" in your face). However, this should not occur on the inside or between the vaginal lips where no hair grows. If you notice little bumps in that area, they can be caused by a number of reasons: Sometimes tight clothes that scrape the skin can do it, exercise wear or exercises that cause perspiration and irritation to the tissue can easily cause the bumps. Sitting in a scented bubble bath can be irritating to your vaginal tissue and cause allergic reactions. Avoid all products in the vaginal area that are scented or contain any additives such as coloring, plant additives or vitamins. These types of products do not belong in this tender area of your body where conception takes place. They often destroy the natural pH which protects this part of your body from irritation and infection. Be sure to wash with a mild pH balanced cleanser and plenty of lukewarm water. For the time being avoid wash cloths, instead use cotton and dispose of it after use, to avoid re-infection. As far as gynecologist go, I can understand you're being anxious. It is notthe most pleasant type of examination, but there are now many women gynecologists and they would have compassion and understanding. If your infections persist, it might still be advisable to see a doctor. As to having sex or not. It is really best when you're completely sure that you want to share this experience with your partner. Listen to your heart, not your head, if there are any concerns you loose nothing by waiting. Best wishes, Jacqui Copyright 2001 Brandwynne Corporation. All rights reserved.

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