Dear Jacqui:
My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him when we make love. While I'm more than happy to do this, I just don't know what to say! I have told him this and he has told me to tell him how much I like it ,etc, but I'm still at a loss!
Shelly

Dear Shelly:
Many men have told us that "vulgar language" during lovemaking really turns them on. This is not an unusual or inappropriate desire. Many of these men are conservative, very polite and well spoken in everyday life. But in the intimacy of the bedroom there are no rules except for one, each person is different.

It is best to ask him exactly what he likes you to say, to do. Which expressions turn him on and...don't forget, maybe this is an opportunity to also discuss some of the things that give you pleasure and have not shared with him. Open communication between two partners is the basis for wonderful sex and a good relationship.

Jacqui

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