Dear Jacqui,
I cannot find an answer to my problem. I can only attain an orgasm only by masturbating. And it seems to need more intense motion. I will like to overcome this.
Monica

Dear Monica,
Every person enjoys "pleasure" differently, and the experience is related to your feelings. So it's not a mechanical matter that prevents you from experiencing orgasms in different ways, it's a psychological issue that seems to be connected with your problem. I have two suggestions:

Firstly, you might wish to read a book by Lou Paget called "The Big O" which has just been published. It has a great deal of valuable information about orgasm and you can order it through our website.

Secondly, it might be worthwhile to have a couple of coaching sessions with a sex therapist or general therapist to help you figure our what is interfering with your desire to feel pleasure.

Jacqui

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