Dear Jacqui,
My boy friend just wants sex and he is very inexperienced in having a real relationship. He is constantly pressuring me to "do it." He acts like he is about to go crazy if we don''t "do it." He doesn't like to kiss or engage in foreplay, what is wrong with him? Mariah

Dear Mariah
I think it would be of great help if you and your boyfriend talked openly about your sexual desires and expectations. Nobody can guess what the other person really likes, what turns a person on, if they don't share their preferences and desires openly. Be as detailed as possible, guide him, show him and suggest that he read a couple of books about the subject. I can suggest Lou Paget's book "How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure" which he can order from our website, www.veryprivate.com. Obviously your partner is not very experienced.

Talk to him about the kissing too. It might be a good idea to invest in a couple of sessions with a sexual therapist. If the relationship is a good and loving one and you want to build on it, make the investment in learning to be open emotionally so you can grow together.

Jacqui

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