Every week we discuss personal relationship problems and how to solve them in a productive way.

But life is not as it used to be. The pain that was inflicted on this nation and thousands of fellow Americans is so deep and so numbing that many of us are just waking up to the grim reality of what happened and how we feel. All of us have witnessed a many disturbing events in our lives. Our brains have stored a thousand frightening images; tragic fires that kill innocent people, but not fires of rage.

Attacks on our citizens- but not attacks of beastly brutality-nothing we have ever seen, nothing we have ever witnessed has prepared us to cope with an act of terrorism of such savagery. Consequently the images we watch on television or see in the papers seem almost unreal, unimaginable. Now, one week later as the emotional shock wears off we are left with our feelings of rage, of despair, of pain and eerie emptiness. How can we find solace? What can we do?, we ask ourselves.

We can do a lot: As a nation we can strengthen our resolve, we can be invincible in our determination to ferret out and defeat the enemy and preserve our way of life and liberty.

As individuals we can do a lot:

We can assure that the language of the heart prevails in our lives.
We can donate our time and services as so many have already done.
We can send money to help the distressed recapture the cherished normalcy of life.
We can share our workspace with the ones who lost theirs.
We can offer a home cooked meal to the family who greave for their dear ones.
We can offer a hand to the ones that lost their jobs.
We can reach out and communicate with friends and strangers.
We can spread kindness by offering a good word, a smile, and a gesture.
We can hug our partner more often; let them know that we love them.
We can let go of ill feelings and negative behavior in our relationships.
We can embrace our children and make them feel loved and secure.
We can be productive rather than critical.
We can be caring and loving to ourselves.
We can feel connected as friends, as family, as a nation.
Not just now, but tomorrow and the day after and after and after.

We can assure that the language of the heart prevails in our lives.

The language of the heart is a resource that will never run out.

Jacqui (top)


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