June 2004
What is intimacy?

May 2004
Chemistry?

April 2004
She just kept spending and i didn't put my foot down

March 2004
What men would like you to know but don't dare talk about

February 2004
Overcoming the fear of loving?

January 2004
Age difference - can it work?

December 2003
The fifteen minutes love investment plan

July 2003
The fifteen minutes love investment plan

June 2003
Falling in love - the unconscious did it

May 2003
Couples and Intimacy - the Basics!

April 2003
43% of American women are sexually dysfunctional? Hype or Reality?

March 2003
How to reconnect when suddenly single at age 50,because of divorce or widowhood?

February 2003
When "if'" onlys stands in the way of love.

January 2003
The Knight to solve your relationship problems is in your heart.

December 2002
How Can I get him to act?

November 2002
Winning against yourself

October 2002
Recapture health & energy

September 2002
I'm terrified of getting hurt again

August 2002
Low self-esteem, is there a way I can change?

July 2002
Stop the hurting and start the loving

June 2002
The Cat or Me?

May 2002
A female co-worker is edging in on our marriage

April 2002
He lost his job and takes it out on me.

March 2002
Turf issues: Old friends vs. a new partner.

February 2002:
If I say yes, does it mean I settle for money?

January 2002
Sign here for a happier life.

December 2001
Give each other the gift of good communication.

November 2001
Turning negative fear into positive energy.

October 2001
What's essential to make a relationship work?

September 2001
My husband say's UV rays can cause considerable eye damage.

August 2001
His jealousy is causing a lot of tension and I'm very concerned about losing him.

July 2001
How to put romance into your vacation.

June 2001
Ten good minutes daily equals a closer relationship.

May 2001
My wife's doctor never mentioned the risks in taking estrogen!

April 2001
I can't keep up and he feels cheated. Shouldn't a 64 year old male be slowing down?

March 2001
He admitted he still loved his ex, but wasn't "in love" with her.

February 2001
Even while we're making love I feel like I'm not really participating.

January 2001
Lack of staying power can it be helped?

December 2000
A Holiday Gift: Less Stress, More Joy.

October 1999
I'm fifty-six years old and still suffer from minor menopause symptoms.


	Newspaper Column: March, 2001

	For a happier, more intimate relationship.
	He admitted he still loved his ex but wasn't "in love" with her anymore. Dear Jacqui, I've been seeing a new man for a few months. He had known his wife for eleven years and divorced one year ago. We like each other very much from the beginning. As we became closer he kept assuring me that he wanted a committed, monogamous relationship. During our last date he asked me if I had ever loved someone so much that I didn't want to be with anybody else? Then he admitted that he still loved his ex but wasn't "in love" with her anymore. What's the difference? Ever since that night he's been pulling away from me. I'm hurt and confused. Do I have a chance to having a solid, complete relationship with this man? Frances Dear Frances, Your new man cant have his cake and eat it too. It is quite clear that he is still emotionally bound to his ex-wife even though legally free. Before he is able to engage in a full and committed relationship he needs to address these issues.I suggest that either he or the two of you seek help from a professional therapist or marriage counselor to clarify the problem. If he's not willing to face the music you'll know pretty quickly that he is just dancing around the issues. You need to be clear with your message.Tell him in a loving way that you are seeking a partner for life not just for a round on the dance floor.As to your second question; yes, there is a difference between being in love and loving. At the start of a relationship people fall in love if the initial attraction is strongly positive. When magic happens both partners feel enveloped in this wonderful rush of feelings that "being in love" is. Such an emotional high is hard to sustain. If the relationship has validity it turns into a deeper sense of love over time, a love that can endure and grow but only if both partners are ready and free to be devoted to each other. Jacqui You can mail your own question to Jacqui at: PO Box 491341, Los Angeles, CA 90049. Or E-mail her at: info@veryprivate.com For more information visit: www.veryprivate.com. We never reveal or give out names or addresses. © 2003 Brandwynne Corp. All rights reserved.				List of Newspapers Presenting Column Reaching 8.9 Million Readers

					June 2004 What is intimacy? May 2004 Chemistry? April 2004 She just kept spending and i didn't put my foot down March 2004 What men would like you to know but don't dare talk about February 2004 Overcoming the fear of loving? January 2004 Age difference - can it work? December 2003 The fifteen minutes love investment plan July 2003 The fifteen minutes love investment plan June 2003 Falling in love - the unconscious did it May 2003 Couples and Intimacy - the Basics! April 2003 43% of American women are sexually dysfunctional? Hype or Reality? March 2003 How to reconnect when suddenly single at age 50,because of divorce or widowhood? February 2003 When "if'" onlys stands in the way of love. January 2003 The Knight to solve your relationship problems is in your heart. December 2002 How Can I get him to act? November 2002 Winning against yourself October 2002 Recapture health & energy September 2002 I'm terrified of getting hurt again August 2002 Low self-esteem, is there a way I can change? July 2002 Stop the hurting and start the loving June 2002 The Cat or Me? May 2002 A female co-worker is edging in on our marriage April 2002 He lost his job and takes it out on me. March 2002 Turf issues: Old friends vs. a new partner. February 2002: If I say yes, does it mean I settle for money? January 2002 Sign here for a happier life. December 2001 Give each other the gift of good communication. November 2001 Turning negative fear into positive energy. October 2001 What's essential to make a relationship work? September 2001 My husband say's UV rays can cause considerable eye damage. August 2001 His jealousy is causing a lot of tension and I'm very concerned about losing him. July 2001 How to put romance into your vacation. June 2001 Ten good minutes daily equals a closer relationship. May 2001 My wife's doctor never mentioned the risks in taking estrogen! April 2001 I can't keep up and he feels cheated. Shouldn't a 64 year old male be slowing down? March 2001 He admitted he still loved his ex, but wasn't "in love" with her. February 2001 Even while we're making love I feel like I'm not really participating. January 2001 Lack of staying power can it be helped? December 2000 A Holiday Gift: Less Stress, More Joy. October 1999 I'm fifty-six years old and still suffer from minor menopause symptoms.