Dear Jacqui,
I met a girl who lives in Miami, while I live in New Jersey. We starting talking a lot and I went to see her in April. We had fun but she said she didn't want a long distance relationship.

We still stayed in touch and I went to see her again last week. We had the most amazing time and I told her that I loved her and would do anything to be with her. She was touched but said she didn't want to talk about it now and that we would discuss it later. We have yet to talk about it. I've left several messages saying "hi" and she has yet to return my call. Help?
Benny

Dear Benny,
Nobody can make anybody love him or her. It seems that your lady friend in Miami is not ready, at this time, to enter into a permanent relationship.

This most likely has nothing to do with you personally. There can be hundred different reasons why she needs more time.I suggest you keep in touch with her, visit from time to time to further the friendship. It may very well be that she would like to get to know you better. Ask her for suggestions as to how she would like to proceed, if at all.

Jacqui

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