Dear Jacqui,
I'm involved in a relationship with a man who takes his sweet time to call. This is a new relationship, about two months. Is it just a man thing to take his time calling or am I impatient? Shouldn't the "Man" do the pursuing?
Wendy

Dear Wendy
Yes, it is a "man" thing to take time with calling and following-up. Often guys don't want to seem "too eager" and they keep mulling around the idea of pursuing a woman for quite some time till they act.

That behavior is more common than "go after it now" tactics. You are also right in letting him pursue you. If the right feelings for you are motivating him then he will come through. If not, you have lost nothing. Best wishes,

Jacqui





	"Shouldn't the "Man" do the pursuing?" Dear Jacqui, I'm involved in a relationship with a man who takes his sweet time to call. This is a new relationship, about two months. Is it just a man thing to take his time calling or am I impatient? Shouldn't the "Man" do the pursuing? Wendy Dear Wendy Yes, it is a "man" thing to take time with calling and following-up. Often guys don't want to seem "too eager" and they keep mulling around the idea of pursuing a woman for quite some time till they act. That behavior is more common than "go after it now" tactics. You are also right in letting him pursue you. If the right feelings for you are motivating him then he will come through. If not, you have lost nothing. Best wishes, Jacqui Copyright 2002 Brandwynne Corporation. All rights reserved. Thank you for your trust.

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