Dear Jacqui,
I have an exciting black tie function to attend for my company and some of our top management will be there. In the past I have always asked the same reliable "just friend" to be my escort for business related social events.

However, three weeks ago I met a new man. He?s very attractive but?.I don?t know him, and he seems to like keeping me guessing. After we went out the first time he didn?t say a word if there would be a second date.

I was a little surprised that he called again. I'm attracted to him and would like to spend this special evening with him. On the other hand, if he turns out to be just a passing fancy, I would prefer not to introduce him to the head of the company. If I only knew?
Millie

Dear Millie,
I think you do know. Listen to your inner voice. Something tells you to go easy otherwise you?d feel more sure about your decision. It seems that Mr. "X" is taking his time and probably contemplating if and when to take the next step. That's a guy thing.

Furthermore, during the "let?s get to know each other better" phase the process of discovery is easier without onlookers, especially your business associates and superiors.

If he turns out to be the right one you?ll have lots of time having your friends and associates get to know him. And remember, men like to hunt!
Jacqui





	Black tie function, which guy to take? Dear Jacqui, I have an exciting black tie function to attend for my company and some of our top management will be there. In the past I have always asked the same reliable "just friend" to be my escort for business related social events. However, three weeks ago I met a new man. He?s very attractive but?.I don?t know him, and he seems to like keeping me guessing. After we went out the first time he didn?t say a word if there would be a second date. I was a little surprised that he called again. I'm attracted to him and would like to spend this special evening with him. On the other hand, if he turns out to be just a passing fancy, I would prefer not to introduce him to the head of the company. If I only knew? Millie Dear Millie, I think you do know. Listen to your inner voice. Something tells you to go easy otherwise you?d feel more sure about your decision. It seems that Mr. "X" is taking his time and probably contemplating if and when to take the next step. That's a guy thing. Furthermore, during the "let?s get to know each other better" phase the process of discovery is easier without onlookers, especially your business associates and superiors. If he turns out to be the right one you?ll have lots of time having your friends and associates get to know him. And remember, men like to hunt! Jacqui Copyright 2000 Brandwynne Corporation. All rights reserved.

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