Dear Jacqui:
My husband has been on Viagra for several months. Before that our sex life was practically non-existent for quite some time. Now it?s quite lively and I'm happy about that. The problem is that when he is ready, he gets going quickly and enjoys having sex for a long duration. I can?t just switch it on like that and sex becomes uncomfortable and afterwards my intimate area is really swollen and irritated. Please help.
Wendy

Dear Wendy:
The first step to solving your problem is communication. Great intimacy cannot happen unless partners feel close, trusting and are able to tell each other just what they feel, what makes them happy in bed or out.

Share with your partner that you enjoy the new excitement in your relationship but that you would welcome more foreplay. You may also try to use a few drops of an intimate moisturizer before or during intimacy to keep the delicate tissue protected so you can enjoy the experience without worries.

Jacqui

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