Dear Jacqui,
Hi. I am looking for a product that will help me last a bit longer. When a relationship is new you know what happens. After a while this is not a problem, the more intercourse I have the longer I can last. If we don't have sex for awhile I am back to square one. Is there anything that would help my privates perform better?
Joey

Dear Joey:
I assume the subject you are discussing is how to maintain an erection especially when starting a new relationship. It is quite common for men and women to have some degree of "performance anxiety" when becoming involved with a new partner.

In men this fear factor can cause loss of erection. In a woman it can trigger not being able to become lubricated (wet) or being too tense to enjoy sexual fulfillment. In each case we are dealing with psychological pressures rather than a physiological problem.

Now, how do you solve it? When a new relationships moves from the "talking and getting to know you stage" to the physical phase it is a good idea to have a long, caring and detailed discussion about all aspects of sexuality. Find out about each other, specifically about each other likes and dislikes as far as sexual matters are concerned.

You can't be too specific. Ask her, how does she like to be touched and where, or kissed, or stroked. Share with her what turns you on. The more you know about each other, the easier it is to enjoy the pleasures of the bedroom together. If you still need some help there are prescription drugs like "Viagra" and others that you may find on the net under "erectile dysfunction".

There are also a number of vitamin formulas available which supposedly are helpful in increasing libido and helping in maintaining erection. But since the FDA does not regulate vitamins and nutrients and there is no hard data available I must refrain from making suggestion on the subject.
Jacqui




	"How can I can last longer?" Dear Jacqui, Hi. I am looking for a product that will help me last a bit longer. When a relationship is new you know what happens. After a while this is not a problem, the more intercourse I have the longer I can last. If we don't have sex for awhile I am back to square one. Is there anything that would help my privates perform better? Joey Dear Joey: I assume the subject you are discussing is how to maintain an erection especially when starting a new relationship. It is quite common for men and women to have some degree of "performance anxiety" when becoming involved with a new partner. In men this fear factor can cause loss of erection. In a woman it can trigger not being able to become lubricated (wet) or being too tense to enjoy sexual fulfillment. In each case we are dealing with psychological pressures rather than a physiological problem. Now, how do you solve it? When a new relationships moves from the "talking and getting to know you stage" to the physical phase it is a good idea to have a long, caring and detailed discussion about all aspects of sexuality. Find out about each other, specifically about each other likes and dislikes as far as sexual matters are concerned. You can't be too specific. Ask her, how does she like to be touched and where, or kissed, or stroked. Share with her what turns you on. The more you know about each other, the easier it is to enjoy the pleasures of the bedroom together. If you still need some help there are prescription drugs like "Viagra" and others that you may find on the net under "erectile dysfunction". There are also a number of vitamin formulas available which supposedly are helpful in increasing libido and helping in maintaining erection. But since the FDA does not regulate vitamins and nutrients and there is no hard data available I must refrain from making suggestion on the subject. Jacqui Copyright Brandwynne Corporation 2000, All Rights Reserved

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