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"My boyfriend is 20 years older
and "peters out" too fast!"

Dear Jacqui,
Hello, I'm going out with a man that is 25 years older, I being 45. He has a lot of energy and stamina. I am a very passionate person and I love sex and we share a very health relationship in that regard.

I do find, however, that he "peters out" and I'm still in need. What do you suggest? He is very attentive to my needs before his needs are quickly fulfilled. I guess I need more. I love this man very much and want to explore how we can adapt or change this? Susie

Dear Susie,
What I suggest is an open and frank as well as loving discussion between the two of you. A great relationship is based on open and clear communication. Great sex depends on it. Tell him how you feel. Tell him what you like.

Be specific, show him and learn, in this give and take process about his desires and preferences. I am sure when he knows what you like he will be thrilled to make you even happier in and out of bed.

Jacqui

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